Thursday, December 2, 2010

(SOMEWHERE OVER THE RAINBOW)





Every morning when we wake up for Subuh Prayer, we will face another day, a new brand day, lots of fun or maybe sadness. Do we have to get back to sleep just to skip that new day?

In my opinion, facing a new brand day is a way to face reality. Whether we like it or not, we have to go through any new phase in our life. I don't want to relate to other people stories but I would like to share what had happened to me.

Being Single and Hot, I have never regret what I have been through in my life. Yes, people would think, "He looks so happy after divorcing his wife"..But do you think I care. After what had happened with me and my ex-wife(God Bless Her), I take it as a new challenge to me. Being Single and Hot is a new adventure to me. After all, I never will lose my attraction (the only thing that i need to lose is some weight) and now I will be looking forward to my beautiful future.

It reminds me to a story that I read in one of the magazines about how precious we are. A professor gave a talk to a huge crowd of students. In the middle of talk, he showed his RM100 note to the students and asked: How many of you want this money? Everybody raised their hand. Then he stepped onto the note several times and asked; Do you still want this money? Still almost everyone raised their hand. So he metaphorically explained that our life is like the RM100 note. Even though the note being stepped on, the value will never change. It is the same to our life, even at one time you will be at the bottom of other people's feet, it will never make you dirty because your life is precious to those who are really loving you and be at your side.

I would like to thank to my beloved family; my grandma (as she said: You prove to people outside there that you are valuable. Buy for yourself a big house then you can start thinking of remarrying), my father (as he said: Life has up and down and I believe you can be a better one), my brother and sister (as they said: Forget the semandin, she brought too much misery in our life), my big sister, Kak Raihan (I will never forget your help) and many more....Oh gosh..............I have started to cry........my colleagues and my friends.....If I list it down, the list will never end....

Thank you Allah for letting me to experience it. As I always believe that experience is the best teacher in your life....








Monday, November 29, 2010

Thank You Allah

As I listened to Maher Zain, Insha Allah....I ponder myself what had happened to me in the past 12 months?
I have been a single man, a married man and back to single.. At first, I could not take it positively as I was ashamed to myself and people around me. Alhamdulillah............(another song of Maher Zain) I gradually accept it and redha to it. It should be nothing to be ashamed of...
Now, I am putting all my concentration on making myself to be a better man....yes.....some people have dumped a lot of curses on me, but I will never take it to my heart...biarlah....I will let them talk and talk and talk and we will see what will happen next....
Ya Allah, I believe that there must be something for me lies ahead of me waiting to be grabbed. I will never surrender to my broken marriage as I will see it as a hikmah......patience...patience...patience........